If your life is not as you would like, there is a difficult but necessary truth: you are the main responsible for the results you have today.
Many people in my Instagram asked me to talk more about personal development, and that makes every sense. Because it is precisely this theme that takes you from the place where you are standing, without perspective, and helps create a real turn in your life.
You were not born just to wake up, work and pay bills. I usually say that there is a key to a safe inside you that can completely transform your reality. But that key only appears when you decide to look for it for real.
Many people are content with a life limited by pure laziness or excuses that serve only to keep everything as it is. And since so many people ask me what this famous comfort zone is, let's simplify it in an easy way to understand.
Imagine that you are stuck up your chest in a sea of dirt. If you stand still, without moving, warm water seems comfortable and over time you even get used to the smell. This is your comfort zone: bad, but familiar.
Now imagine what happens when you try to get out. You need to move, and each step leaves the water colder, the smell stronger and everything gets more unpleasant. But it is precisely this discomfort that starts to get you out of there. And when you finally get out, you realize it was worth it.
It is so with the goals. Most people do not want to go through this difficult moment. At the first obstacle, give up and start looking guilty to justify the lack of results. Only the truth is simple: the life you have today is the fruit of the choices you have made so far.
To recognize that is not to blame, it is to take control.
From now on, there are only two paths. You can turn the page and start writing a new story, where you are the protagonist. Or you can continue to be dissatisfied, living on the automatic and hoping that one day luck will solve everything.
And I need to tell you something, it's not gonna happen.
What changes your life is not luck.